I ran into a woman at Target the other day, she looked so familiar... I had
to say something to her. I said, "Excuse me, but you look so familiar. Do
you know me... or I know you?" I fully expected a "No, I just got one of
those faces" type of an answer but instead - much to my surprise - she said,
"Chip Kocel! Caroline S******wald."
"Little Carrie S******wald?" I haven't seen since 8th grade middle school?
Carrie was the grade school crush my friend Erich had. Her name made it into
my best man speech at his wedding, saying something like '...We've been
through a lot, from your first crush "Little Carrie S*****wald" to the
women you would be with blah blah blah...'. (You can fill in the rest,
pretty standard best-man speech stuff).
She said she wasn't sure how I knew her, as Carrie or Caroline. We gave
each-other the quick review of what we missed, a whole lifetime of
information distilled into a readers digest log line. Then we quickly gave
each other the "What are you doing now?" answers and went our separate ways.
Looking into her face I saw the little girl I knew in 8th grade. The
feeling that came over me was so indescribable, I imagine it can only be the
closest feeling that one would have if one actually traveled back in time
thirty years.
After she gave me her card she turned and walked away. She had the same
spring in her step as if she were that ten-year-old girl that carried all
her books in that over-stuffed book bag so many years ago...